Cheating Husbands: 5 Reasons Why You Should Divorce Them

by Maria MagleoAugust 9, 2022

Finding out your husband’s infidelity is extremely scarring, but healing is possible and divorce may be the best way to achieve it.

But you didn’t marry with divorce in mind, did you?

You married because you wanted to have a happy life together with your husband. For a while, it felt like you were on cloud nine until he cheated and ruined your dream life.

The pain and trauma are all making you feel miserable right now. But it doesn’t have to be like that for the rest of your life.

Sometimes divorce can be the best path to take especially if you are still hoping to be happy again. Here are the reasons why.

1. Harmony Has Given Way To Constant Fighting

Fights, disagreements, and misunderstandings are all normal parts of married life, but marriage shouldn’t revolve around them.

If it does, then it only means that you’re in a toxic relationship with your husband. It’s even more toxic now that infidelity has entered the picture.

With infidelity invading your marriage, the fights will only worsen and will become more frequent. 

On his side of the story, though, he might also be blaming you for his wrongdoings. As a result, you’re only going through the vicious cycle of blame, anger, and resentment.

Even if you say that you’re willing to forgive, it won’t be as easy as 1,2,3.

It’ll be quite the effort, even with the help of therapy, it still wouldn’t be guaranteed.

This will only result in an emotional load that gets heavier and heavier as time goes by. 

And what if you have children? Are you going to let them carry this emotional baggage as well?

2. Unhappy Is The New Normal

Marriages thrive not only because of love but also because of the feelings of fulfillment and happiness you get from them.

If you and your husband are constantly arguing and couldn’t come up with a healthy agreement or a compromise, can you still say that you are in a fulfilling marriage?

Additionally, your husband has cheated on you, which means that in reality, your marriage is far from happy. 

No matter how much you try to convince yourself or other people, the exhaustion from pretending and the unhappiness itself will eventually show. In the end, you will only be miserable.

Perhaps it’s time that you face the sad truth that you are in an unhappy marriage, because only then will you be able to move forward and start healing.

There’s a famous quote that says “stop looking for happiness in the same place you lost it” and I couldn’t emphasize more how true these words are. Especially for you.

If you keep coming back to that place, the result is always going to be the same – disappointment and heartbreak. Ladies, don’t do that to yourself.

3. He’ll Likely Do It Again

Men cheat due to a lot of possible reasons one of which is the feeling of dissatisfaction. 

Maybe your husband felt dissatisfied with the flow of your marriage. Maybe for him, something was missing. Or maybe he also just couldn’t find happiness in your union anymore.

Being dissatisfied and unhappy doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you anymore. Maybe he still loves you, but more often than not, love is not enough to keep a relationship going.

If he cheated because he was unhappy and looking for something he couldn’t find in you or your marriage, is there even a chance that he wouldn’t cheat anymore?

Because the truth of the matter is, as long as he feels that way, then he would only cheat again and again. 

4. No Commitment From Him

Engaging in infidelity is a serious sign of commitment issues and you can’t just turn a blind eye to keep your marriage working.

Commitment means that you stick with one another no matter what the situation is, and if there are problems, you face them and fix them together. You don’t just simply leave.

Now, if you’re experiencing marital conflicts and he cheated, it means that he isn’t fully committed to you and your relationship.

He may be there physically, but emotionally, he’s already gone. And when you face another conflict? He would choose to cheat again.

5. Incompatibility

Those who have been cheated on sometimes fail to recognize the fact that it’s not always their fault that their partners decided to go astray.

You see, you could be a flawless person, but if there’s no compatibility, he would still go look for it in someone else.

And, if I’m being honest, compatibility in the relationship can also affect a person’s feelings of happiness and satisfaction.

In your case, you can be the prettiest, smartest, and most caring woman in the world, but if your husband feels like who you are isn’t compatible with who he is, then those are all useless.


Staying in this kind of marriage is emotionally exhausting, especially if there are a lot of other negative situations involved. 

If this is the case, divorce might be the best path to take for both parties to move forward with their lives and heal from the pain and trauma. 

If you don’t know where to start, I recommend starting by finding a divorce lawyer in your area. You can easily do that by searching them in your area using this directory.

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