Published by: Joanne Rogers  Date: Jul 23, 2024

First off, I just wanna say that what you're going through is NOT your fault. There is no excuse for cheating and you deserve to know the truth.

But if indeed if they are cheating, you won't hear it from them. Which is why I've written up this article on the top 3 ways to find out if they truly are.

1. Hire A Private Investigator

Although this may be the most obvious answer, it's also the most expensive one. If you have the cash available, this would be your best option.

Private Investigators are really good at gathering information without getting caught. And even if they do get caught, they won't suspect that you hired someone.

Fees range anywhere from $40-$200/hour plus travel expenses.

2. Find Their Hidden Social Media Accounts, Recent Locations Or Dating Accounts

That's right, cheaters usually have more than one social media or dating account that you're completely unaware of!

According to a study done by Digital Trends, 67% of all cheaters who used another social media account to cheat with, did it through Facebook. Most cheating ends up online nowadays too, due to the ease of access.

There's even websites dedicated to helping spouses cheat on their partner (sites like AshleyMadison) and they're in big demand. 

So how do you find your spouse's potentially secret social media or dating accounts? Use online tools like Instant Checkmate. They're a public database company that crawls the internet for data associated with individuals across the world.

And you guessed it, they can even find out if your spouse has social media or dating accounts you're unaware of. They can also find what locations  they recently visited!

All you have to do is type in their name and general area. From there, Instant Checkmate will begin narrowing down individuals by asking you to confirm some of your spouse's info. (Things you'll likely know the answer to such as who they're related to.)

I'll admit, it's a little scary when you see just how much info they can gather about someone. But it's definitely useful in helping you find the online accounts your spouse may be using, or where they've recently been. You just have to check once a month for a few months to get the best results.

(And don't worry, I already checked and yes, it's legal. Private Investigators use these kind of tools all the time. Lucky for you, you don't have to be licensed to use it.)

Go here and give it a shot. You really don't have much to lose and this can finally give you some peace of mind.

3. Drop By Unannounced

Every now and then, drop by unannounced to their workplace or come back home early. But do it genuinely.

Make it a surprise you know?

If your partner is cheating on you, the first thing they’d do *instead of welcoming you with a smile* is hide something or appear surprised or even angry!

Another thing this does is helps you catch them if they're lying about their whereabouts.

My Recommendation

Hiring a private investigator is pretty expensive, for this reason, my suggestion is to try out Instant Checkmate first.

If you see they have "shady" accounts online, then that's a big red flag. And since you may even see what locations they've recently visited - and if they've been somewhere they lied about.. that's another red flag. 

If you want to get even more evidence, then you should hire a private investigator. Since you used Instant Checkmate first, you'll know if they've been up to something shady first, that way you don't go wasting your money.

Click here to search them up on Instant Checkmate.

- Joanne Rogers,
Relationship Expert